ITALY – a Land to Love and Linger In

Who doesn’t love Italy? It is among the top 5 most visited countries in the world. Even those who haven’t been there love Italian food, Italian wine, Italian cars, authors, designers and opera singers. 

I just felt so happy, it was like the sun came out of the clouds for me.
I love Italy. 
Bruce Sterling

We have been fortunate to spend a great deal of time in Italy and are happy to be back again this May 2017. This is the 3rd year we have leased a car to spend months traveling around Europe. If you are to be there for any length of time, leasing is much more economical and practical. You get a brand new car, fully insured with GPS, standard or automatic. Check it out at

Leaning Tower of Pisa

In the past, we have sailed along the Italian coast on various cruise ships, and taken excellent land tours of both northern and southern Italy. Consequently, we have visited most of the great cities in Italy – Rome, Florence, Venice, Sienna, Assisi, Naples, Perugia – and many of the historical sites. Italy has more UNESCO World Heritage sites than any other country.

Now we seek places off the beaten path. We cruise to Europe in the spring and return to Florida via cruise ship in the fall on repositioning voyages. It is the equivalent of flying business class but includes 2 weeks of room, food and entertainment. I choose the ship based on the dates and ports of departure. This year we sailed Celebrity Reflection out of Miami to Civitavecchia, Italy. Cruise lines now charge $75 per person from Civitavecchia to Rome city or airport and vice versa. There are other options: A train if you are not overburdened with luggage, a taxi or a shuttle. I arranged a shuttle with NCC Plus for $70 for the two of us. They were fantastic. 

I will write about our time in Italy in my next blog.  In the meantime, some things you may not know about this beautiful country…

Rome was founded in 753 B.C. and gave birth to the Roman Empire. At its height in 117 A.D. the Empire was 2/3 the size of the United States. It reached from Portugal in the east to Syria in the west, from Britain in the north to the northern deserts of Africa.

Today the Italian Republic (Repubblica Italiana) is slightly larger than the state of Arizona. It has 7,600 km or 4,720 miles of coastline. 

Two countries – Vatican City and San Marino – are nestled within its borders. 

Famous authors include Dante, Petracrch and Boccaccio. Pinocchio (meaning pine nut) was also penned by an Italian.

Famous designers: Valentino, Armani, Versace, Gucci, and Prada.

Famous car makers: Ferrari, Lamborghini, Alfa Romeo and Maserati. 

Italy produced the first operas and claims Rossini, Puccini, Verdi, and Pavarotti as native sons.

You may have the universe if I may have Italy. Giuseppe Verdi

As the birthplace of the Renaissance, Italy proudly boasts of achievements in poetry, painting and architecture by many famous artists: Raphael, Michelangelo,  Donatello, and Leonardo Da Vinci.

Famous scientists and mathematicians: Da Vinci, Galilei, Volta, and Fibonacci.

As of 2016, Italy was the world’s top wine producing country.

It is the largest exporter of olive oil. (While Spain is the la
rgest producer, Italy blends olive oil imported from other countries making it the largest importer and exporter.)

The home of pizza, pasta, risotto gelato and espresso.

Italians created many delicious cheeses including parmigiano-reggiano, gorgonzola, fontina, mozzarella, asiago and provolone.

There is in the DNA of the Italians a bit of madness, which in the overwhelming majority of cases is positive. It is genius. It is talent. It’s the masterpieces of art. It’s the food, fashion, everything that makes Italy great in the world. Matteo Renzi

Italy has some problems

Italy lives with the threat of three active volcanoes – Etna, Vesuvius, and Stromboli – and devastating earthquakes. They suffered several this past year.

High unemployment, high aging population and low birth rate (lowest in Europe).

Nevertheless, there is so much to love about Italy and the warm-hearted Italian people. It’s good to be back.

I was offered a free villa in Hollywood, but I said no thank you, I prefer to live in Italy. Ennio Morricone

Thoughts to Ponder from Former Presidents

This month we celebrate President’s Day. It is a national holiday created to honor the births of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln. Two other presidents were also born in February – William Henry Harrison and Ronald Reagan. The words of these four gentlemen are worth pondering.

First President and one of the Founding Fathers of the United States.
Born: February 22, 1732
President: April 30, 1789 – March 4, 1797
Died: December 14, 1799


George Washington was the only president to be elected unanimously. In accepting the presidency, he believed he had given up “all expectations of private happiness in this world.”

Observe good faith and justice toward all nations. Cultivate peace and harmony with all.

If the freedom of speech is taken away then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter.

Some day, following the example of the United States of America, there will be a United States of Europe.

I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man.


William Henry Harrison Sr. was the 9th President of the United States, and the last president born as a British subject. 

Born: February 9, 1773, Charles City County, Virginia, VA
President: March 4, 1841 – April 4, 1841
Died: April 4, 1841, Washington, D.C.

William Henry Harrison died one month after taking office. The wet and freezing weather in which he delivered the longest inaugural address in history may have contributed to his death. His vice-president, John Tyler, assumed the presidency. He was the first to take office without being elected to that office. People questioned his legitimacy and nicknamed him ‘His Accidency.’

There is nothing more corrupting, nothing more destructive of the noblest and finest feelings of our nature, than the exercise of unlimited power.

The liberties of a people depend on their own constant attention to its preservation.

Times change, and we change with them.

Sound morals, religious liberty, and a just sense of religious responsibility are essentially connected with all true and lasting happiness.

A decent and manly examination of the acts of government should not only be tolerated, but encouraged.

All the measures of the Government are directed to the purpose of making the rich richer and the poor poorer.


Abraham Lincoln was the 16th president of the United States, revered for abolishing slavery and preserving the Union.

Born: February 12, 1809
President: March 4, 1861 – April 15, 1865
Died: April 15, 1865

Hours before he was assassinated, Lincoln said, “I believe there are men who want to take my life and I have no doubt they will do it.” He did not want to go to the theater that fateful night but was unwilling to disappoint people who expected him.

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.

America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.

A house divided against itself cannot stand.

When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.

Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.

You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.

The philosophy of the school room in one generation will be the philosophy of government in the next.


40th president. Seven Congressmen moved for impeachment following his invasion of Grenada.

Born: February 6, 1911, Tampico, IL
President: January 20, 1981 – January 20, 1989
Died: June 5, 2004, Bel-Air, Los Angeles, CA

Before entering politics, Reagan was an actor and was considered for the role of Rick in the movie Casablanca.

We can’t help everyone, but everyone can help someone.

There are no constraints on the human mind, no walls around the human spirit, no barriers to our progress except those we ourselves erect.

Trust, but verify.

To sit back hoping that someday, some way, someone will make things right is to go on feeding the crocodile, hoping he will eat you last – but eat you he will.

Information is the oxygen of the modern age. It seeps through the walls topped by barbed wire, it wafts across the electrified borders.

How can a president not be an actor?

There are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination, and wonder.

All Hate is Really Self-hate

No public figures have stirred up more collective anger, hatred and vitriolic emotions than Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump. Call it acrimony, hostility, loathing, disgust, revulsion or abhorrence – it’s all the same. What may surprise you is that…

The hatred you feel for another is really self- hate

People do not cause our feelings. The most they can do is resonate what is within us. We like people who resonate good feelings and dislike people who resonate bad feelings. And we hate those who resonate – bring to the surface – our dark and ugly feelings.

It is our deepest, darkest, unkind and unloving self we despise, project outward and attack. 

Thoughts cause feelings. Our thoughts about people and events ignite our emotions. Most of us don’t know Hillary or Donald. We only know what we think about them. If we don’t like those thoughts, we don’t like them. In truth, we are rejecting and rebelling against the content of our own mind.

In the case of this election, Trump and Clinton have agitated our deeply hidden and denied animosity. Like the villains in books and movies, we see them as bad guys,  caldrons of corruption, narcissism, and deceit. We lash out against them with ugly words and pictures. Facts that don’t support our perception are ignored. Hillary Clinton, in particular, has been branded corrupt and deceitful, but facts show Donald Trump to be the bigger liar.





Compare factual and false statements of the candidates.





Best sites for checking facts.

That is not to say that Mrs. Clinton is not deceitful. But who isn’t? The average person lies several times a day. And if we don’t lie to others, we lie to ourselves. We put on what has been called ‘the face of innocence’ while disowning our dark side and seeing it in others. We cling to the inflated image of ourselves and our distorted opinion of others even if it means discarding truth and rationality.

When we discount facts and figures that don’t support our beliefs and desires, we make decisions based on emotion, not reason. In the case of elections, those decisions can do irreparable harm not just to ourselves but to our country.

Cultural and ideological intolerance are at the root of most wars. Such intolerance is brewing within our country. As is often the case, it hides behind moral and religious righteousness.

Much that passes as idealism is disguised hatred. Bertrand Russell

There is nothing righteous, positive or constructive about hatred. It breeds separation and conflict. We forfeit inner peace with every unkind thought.

Let me not think that I can find the way to God, if I have hatred in my heart. A Course In Miracles

The price we pay to hate

In his book Why We Hate Rush Dozier explains that hatred has its roots in the most ancient areas of the brain – the amygdala, often called the reptilian brain. Hate is a primitive emotion triggered by fear, negative stereotyping and clashing thought systems. It has been called “the nuclear weapon of the mind.” Not just because of its effects on others. Hate raises blood pressure, suppresses the immune system and releases harmful biochemicals in the body and brain.


Fear breeds hatred, and hatred has the power to destroy everything in its path. Kevyn Aucoin

Our personal, national and international problems are not going away no matter who becomes our next president. But ongoing hatred projected at the government, other religions, and races is going to make things significantly worse. Hatred causes problems, it doesn’t solve them. It leads to alienation, conflict, and violence.

If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. Mother Teresa

Obviously, we have preferences in everything we do. So get out and vote for the candidate you prefer. But for the good of the country, and yourself, let the hatred go.